Dogs, cats, babies, friends, friends' dogs, lovers, down comforters.
At this point in the cold season, those of us who have survived are those who have succumbed to cuddles.
One can even somewhat snuggle, from a safe distance, with a space heater or wood stove.
On rare occasion, even the sun makes itself fair game.
I'm tickled to announce I'll be serenading folks at a public cuddle puddle in just one week.
First, a plug for live music-going.
Part of why I've started making a habit of going out to live music, despite the warring forces of gravity and inertia, is because I NEVER REGRET IT.
So instead of "Here are a few of my favorite things," sung by blonde Mary Poppins, I present you with, "Here are a few things I never regret:"
-Walking. Anywhere. Anytime. It reliably massages my brain. In the winter, walking the miles between places brings me an inner warmth that few fires can match.
-Eating a salad, or greens in general. Chlorophyl = happiness high. For staying hydrated and warm, I've gotten in the habit of putting seaweed and herbs and greens and whatever else in a bowl with miso and submerging it all in just-boiled water. My very own aquarium. For dinner.
-Meditating. Even 10 minutes can work wonders in taking me from a ten back to zero.
-Reaching out to a friend when I'm distraught. The gals I've got on my speed-dial work like a charm.
-Recording musical ideas on my laptop late at night. It gives me a funny buzz I can't quite recreate other ways, even if it effs with my sleep cycle.
-And yes, going out to hear live music. It's the warmth, the friendship-fortifying conversation, the kooky decor that often shakes me out of my darker doubts.
It's a little thing called community that can restore my faith in humanity.
In these settings, romance is a gazillion times more likely than if I'd stayed at home hum-drumming and ho-humming.
This brings me to my next show.
For those of us in the city of Charlottesville, this is our chance to share the love. I created an evening for us like a hand-crafted Valentine-- thoughtfully, with lots of frills.
Spend Valentine's evening submerged in art sharing sweet morsels and crafting valentines with the people you like to love.
Wherever you are on the planet reading this, I hope you'll go out despite the cold to experience the ambient ardor of this holiday of love.
To me, this day is an invitation to celebrate love of all kinds- how do we show it, how do we live it, how to we BE the Love that we ARE as much as possible ???
I have another radio show this week to start things off. And for my Virginia friends, here are some more opportunities to catch my songs.
Upcoming Shows in VA
2/10 LIVE ON THE RADIO - WCNR/106.1 The Corner - 8pm EST
2/14 Charlottesville, VA @ IX Art Park, 7-11:30pm, $5 donation
2/21 Staunton, VA @ Redbeard Brewing Co.
w/ Sarah Lynna & the Misfit Toys, 7-10pm
2/28 Harrisonburg, VA @ The Golden Pony w/ Jeremaiah Tall
3/10 Richmond, VA @ Crossroads RVA (unconfirmed)
4/16 Charlottesville, VA @ The Ante Room - World Voice Day
-Oh, and one last never-regret: wearing earplugs at said live music events. It's a pacifier for my mind. A soft sweater for my senses.
I'm not getting paid to do so, but I recommend Sweetwater's earplugs for bringing things to a safe decibel while keeping sounds rather clear. They make both folk- and rock-level options.
I feel like a total nerd when I wear them.
Which is why I'd like to start a trend so I can hang with the cool kids again.
Something I learn as I grow older is that if I do manage to stick around on this planet for another batch of decades, it's important that I not damage myself irreparably in some stupid way.
p.s. The wintry portrait at the top of this blog was snapped by my dear friend Renee Byrd. She is a multi-faceted whirlwind of creativity, whether it's writing or photography or playing back-up in my band.
She is currently planning to make me a fairy-unicorn rainbow raw cake for my birthday which will debut on her blog. Hashtag what true friends are made of.
WAIT. So tell me in the comments below, what are some things YOU never regret ? I love hearing from you always. xxxoo